Yes it is mighty hard to get a good look inside your own ear, I know this from experience.
If you don't want to go to a clinic to have it taken care of, you might try GENTLE repeated irrigation with a bulb syringe and warm water. I would suggest that you pull sort of up and backwards on your ear with the opposite hand (reach over top of your head). This will straighten out the ear canal so that the irrigation can be squirted in more directly.
Or you can have your girlfriend help you with the irrigation, (or your wife). Or they can take turns.

(OK that was a joke!)
Here's what a bulb syringe looks like in case you don't know, usually you can find them in drugstores (the first one in the upper left).
http://images.google...r...es&ct=titleYou may put a towel on your shoulder and use a little basin to catch the water that comes out, it can make a mess!
Good luck!