237 replies to this topic
Posted 2012-02-06 15:10:24
 sbk, on 2012-01-27 17:38:55, said:
Wow, marston, you really need to get out more and meet women not on the internet, is all I can say to this. wow.
well this week i will be in BKK Pattaya and Had Yai, so getting out enough is not a problem. i prefer to meet non sex workers and this is done via the internet, i get 40-50 interest requests per week, so select the ones i consider suiable and chat. OK you have to have a reasonably level of intellegance to converse with them as most have degrees and well,paid jobs..
irony here, somebody spent most of the last 20 years on a tiny island telling somebody who has travelled most of Thailand and Asia need to get out more.
what interaction will you have with Thai's you have never met before.
Posted 2012-02-06 16:37:20
marstons, on 2012-02-06 15:10:24, said:
sbk, on 2012-01-27 17:38:55, said:
Wow, marston, you really need to get out more and meet women not on the internet, is all I can say to this. wow.
well this week i will be in BKK Pattaya and Had Yai, so getting out enough is not a problem. i prefer to meet non sex workers and this is done via the internet, i get 40-50 interest requests per week, so select the ones i consider suiable and chat. OK you have to have a reasonably level of intellegance to converse with them as most have degrees and well,paid jobs..
irony here, somebody spent most of the last 20 years on a tiny island telling somebody who has travelled most of Thailand and Asia need to get out more.
what interaction will you have with Thai's you have never met before.
I don't need to get into a "my dick is bigger than yours" pissing contest with you Marston.
Posted 2012-02-06 18:34:41
ok, lets keep the discussion on topic rather than turning this into a directed focus on any one individual shall we
cheers
Posted 2012-02-10 19:03:51
it is nice that this thread has run so long and i can still get a laugh
Posted 2012-02-10 19:50:09
A friend of mine, a Thai lady now almost 30, but then early 20's, was at a nightclub dancing. This nightclub was actually in southern Europe and not Thailand. A guy, looked to be early 40's, about 6 foot tall and a good 120+Kg, though it was OK to come up behind her and rub his tackle against her bottom. By instinct, my 5 foot friend spun jumped and punched the guy full on the nose - laying him out (i.e. knocking him on to his back). The guy got up and decided to become nasty, but was grabbed by security and ushered out the door.
Some people just think it's fine to sexually assault a girl in a club; some see a Thai female there and think her a prostitute. Such attitudes say a lot about people - and none of it nice!
Having said that, signals can often be confused - especially when a female that is unknown acts in an over friendly way (such as the Op), even when it is completely innocent. If signals are corssed, what is worse - the guy making a friendly overture towards coupling, or too let "actions speak louder"?
The former, surely - at worse it should be embarassing - the latter, at worse it's assault (like our "friend" in the club above). If the guy got the wrong signal, bearing in mind the foreign country/culture, holiday mode state of mind and smiling (overly?) friendliness of an unknown female stranger, it is hardly surprising.
I really don't think she should have taken offense, and his embarassment was clear by his suddenly turning tail and running.
He thought he had landed on his feet (got lucky), but misread the situation, he verbally tested that hypothesis rather than assuming it, and found (to his embarassment) he had indeed misread it, so removed himself from said situation. Personally, I think he acted with decorum and grace - like a gentleman should. If we all erred on the side of caution on every cue, then this world would be a lot more sparsely populated than it is now - and there would be a lot of lonely unhappy people on it to boot.
Posted 2012-02-11 00:09:34
Amazing how it's always turned as the woman's fault
A guy says vulgar things to a woman when they meet at a business setting but it's her fault she said hello and smiled?
She walks away in embarrassment because of his vulgar words and he's being a gentleman???
Posted 2012-02-11 04:59:03
MiG16, on 2012-02-11 00:09:34, said:
Amazing how it's always turned as the woman's fault
A guy says vulgar things to a woman when they meet at a business setting but it's her fault she said hello and smiled?
She walks away in embarrassment because of his vulgar words and he's being a gentleman???
Well if a woman is embarrassed or gets angry because someone asks her for a shag then yes it is her fault.
Must be many men wandering down soi 6 in Pattaya absolutely furious with women. 
Some women just need to lighten up.
Posted 2012-02-11 09:00:13
Some men need to learn manners 
Posted 2012-02-11 11:55:50
I'm not the type to pray
But I will pray I never run into you wallaby
Posted 2012-02-11 13:01:10
Wallaby, on 2012-02-11 04:59:03, said:
MiG16, on 2012-02-11 00:09:34, said:
Amazing how it's always turned as the woman's fault
A guy says vulgar things to a woman when they meet at a business setting but it's her fault she said hello and smiled?
She walks away in embarrassment because of his vulgar words and he's being a gentleman???
Well if a woman is embarrassed or gets angry because someone asks her for a shag then yes it is her fault.
Must be many men wandering down soi 6 in Pattaya absolutely furious with women.
Some women just need to lighten up.
If you can't talk to a woman and make her laugh...read the signs...ask her if she's like to meet again for a drink/meet up again without resorting to sex talk at a first meeting then you are a moron.
I suspect you spend way too much of your time on Soi 6 or in Nana Plaza. The last refuges of sad and pathetic old men who have no real understanding or care for women at all.
Posted 2012-02-11 14:57:50
Smokie36 - "If you can't talk to a woman and make her laugh...read the signs...ask her if she's like to meet again for a drink/meet up again without resorting to sex talk at a first meeting then you are a moron."
Couldn't agree more. If you can't make the woman laugh then you are wasting your time - she's unlikely to be interested enough to even go out on another date.
If she laughs - you need to recognise whether she is just being polite or genuinely enjoys your company.
Either way, "resorting to sex talk at a first meeting" will only work on v rare occasions in most social gatherings. 99 to 1 the woman will be offended and consider the culprit an idiot, with nothing to recommend him.
Posted 2012-02-11 18:26:16
BookMan, on 2011-12-25 17:08:24, said:
dominique355, on 2011-12-23 16:49:51, said:
I just read recently that 57% of all married men in Thailand are cheating on their wife.
But ... 63% of all married women in Thailand do too!
So may be the OP is coming down a bit from the moral high grounds. It's a normal thing here. Thai culture.
That survey was by a condom company....they had a vested interest in promoting promiscuity. Id wager it was an unscientific survey, perhaps even just a 'fill in the weblink survey; for allcomers.
Actually I made up the figures,  . You see, I believe only in statistics I falsified myself.
Posted 2012-02-11 18:30:26
sbk, on 2012-02-11 09:00:13, said:
Some men need to learn manners
Why is it that men have to change their thinking but women don't. Some women are far too precious.
Posted 2012-02-11 18:30:58
MiG16, on 2012-02-11 11:55:50, said:
I'm not the type to pray
But I will pray I never run into you wallaby
So do I, at least we both won't be wasting our time.
Posted 2012-02-11 18:40:18
F1fanatic, on 2012-02-11 14:57:50, said:
Smokie36 - "If you can't talk to a woman and make her laugh...read the signs...ask her if she's like to meet again for a drink/meet up again without resorting to sex talk at a first meeting then you are a moron."
Couldn't agree more. If you can't make the woman laugh then you are wasting your time - she's unlikely to be interested enough to even go out on another date.
If she laughs - you need to recognise whether she is just being polite or genuinely enjoys your company.
Either way, "resorting to sex talk at a first meeting" will only work on v rare occasions in most social gatherings. 99 to 1 the woman will be offended and consider the culprit an idiot, with nothing to recommend him.
It is patently obvious you don't have a clue what I'm taking about.
If I want to spend the best part of a night making a woman laugh and having intelligent conversation it is because I find her attractive and want her as a potential girlfriend. That being the case I would definitely not want to sleep with her on the first night and if it came to that then I wouldn't want her as a girlfriend.
If I just want to shag a woman then I'm not going to waste her night or mine by engaging in conversation I'm not interested in. If the woman doesn't want it then a simple 'no' is suffice and we can both go seperate ways and both haven't wasted time. I don't care if she declines because I was abrupt or too forward. I don't care about the 99 that think I'm an idiot, doesn't matter to me, why would I care about people that don't like me. But the one that doesn't think I'm an idiot and agrees to sex then we both get what we want.
Posted 2012-02-11 18:46:04
There is no answer to this response...
Wallaby - why are you on the Ladies forum? Its obvious that you have no interest in what women think.
Posted 2012-02-11 18:49:43
smokie36, on 2012-02-11 13:01:10, said:
Wallaby, on 2012-02-11 04:59:03, said:
MiG16, on 2012-02-11 00:09:34, said:
Amazing how it's always turned as the woman's fault
A guy says vulgar things to a woman when they meet at a business setting but it's her fault she said hello and smiled?
She walks away in embarrassment because of his vulgar words and he's being a gentleman???
Well if a woman is embarrassed or gets angry because someone asks her for a shag then yes it is her fault.
Must be many men wandering down soi 6 in Pattaya absolutely furious with women.
Some women just need to lighten up.
If you can't talk to a woman and make her laugh...read the signs...ask her if she's like to meet again for a drink/meet up again without resorting to sex talk at a first meeting then you are a moron.
I suspect you spend way too much of your time on Soi 6 or in Nana Plaza. The last refuges of sad and pathetic old men who have no real understanding or care for women at all.
I agree that if I wanted to meet up a second time etc then it would not be wise for sex talk. But that is not what I want, I want to have sex so I will ask. If you think i'm a moron then it really doesn't matter to me because I'm not interested in you at all and don't care what you think.
BTW, I've been to Nana Plaza once, for 1 beer so can't really comment on the place. I've been to soi 6 once, just to walk up it and see what all the fuss is about but it didn't interest me. Though I certainly didn't take offence at being asked to shag every 5 metres then come on a forum to complain about it.
I was going to suggest you would know more about those places than me but your comment about pathetic old men was nothing like what I saw when walking through it. But if you have more experience in those places than me then I won't disagree with you Though I'm confused as to why you would frequent such places if they are the refuge of pathetic old men and you don't like it?
Posted 2012-02-11 18:52:09
F1fanatic, on 2012-02-11 18:46:04, said:
There is no answer to this response...
Wallaby - why are you on the Ladies forum? Its obvious that you have no interest in what women think.
I see women comment in the men's forum. Are men not allowed in the ladies forum?
Again you only read into things what you want. I said that if I'm interested in a woman then I will have good conversation and want to know her better and hope for more dates. Is that not an interest in what women think?
Posted 2012-02-11 19:39:07
Wallaby, on 2012-02-11 18:52:09, said:
F1fanatic, on 2012-02-11 18:46:04, said:
There is no answer to this response...
Wallaby - why are you on the Ladies forum? Its obvious that you have no interest in what women think.
I see women comment in the men's forum. Are men not allowed in the ladies forum?
Again you only read into things what you want. I said that if I'm interested in a woman then I will have good conversation and want to know her better and hope for more dates. Is that not an interest in what women think?
I hadn't realised that other forums were the province of males only.... Naively I thought that they were open to men as well as the (relatively few) women here.
Its been made v clear that the 'ladies' forum is open to everyone but, I repeat, you have made it obvious you are not interested in the 'ladies' views - so why read or post?
Edited by F1fanatic, 2012-02-11 19:41:14.
Posted 2012-02-11 20:42:21
F1fanatic, on 2012-02-11 19:39:07, said:
Wallaby, on 2012-02-11 18:52:09, said:
F1fanatic, on 2012-02-11 18:46:04, said:
There is no answer to this response...
Wallaby - why are you on the Ladies forum? Its obvious that you have no interest in what women think.
I see women comment in the men's forum. Are men not allowed in the ladies forum?
Again you only read into things what you want. I said that if I'm interested in a woman then I will have good conversation and want to know her better and hope for more dates. Is that not an interest in what women think?
I hadn't realised that other forums were the province of males only.... Naively I thought that they were open to men as well as the (relatively few) women here.
Its been made v clear that the 'ladies' forum is open to everyone but, I repeat, you have made it obvious you are not interested in the 'ladies' views - so why read or post?
Because you need to be educated. 
Posted 2012-02-11 22:31:04
This forum is a plce for women to feel comfortable and IMO you just crossed a line Wallaby. I would reccommend you drop rhis line of behavior now
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Posted 2012-02-12 02:36:21
I've been looking in on this thread now and then and all I can say is WOW! I'm no angel by any stretch of the imagination but man oh man, some of you guys are seriously F'ed up! Blaming the OP for some guys acting like jerks, and thinking that their behaviour was acceptable, etc,etc. I can't imagine how you treat people in your everyday lives, your attitudes are mind boggling. There is no reason to not treat someone with courtesy and respect, unless unusual circumstances dictate a change in behaviour. Please cut out the biological imperative crap and the disingenuous "cutting to the chase and not wasting time" BS as well, I can't help but think you know that you're acting like a holes, and if you don't then there is really something seriously wrong with you. I am embarrassed by and for you!
Sorry Ladies, rant over. I will now get back to my regularly scheduled vacation in Costa Rica
Posted 2012-02-12 04:15:15
Wallaby, on 2012-02-11 18:49:43, said:
smokie36, on 2012-02-11 13:01:10, said:
Wallaby, on 2012-02-11 04:59:03, said:
MiG16, on 2012-02-11 00:09:34, said:
Amazing how it's always turned as the woman's fault
A guy says vulgar things to a woman when they meet at a business setting but it's her fault she said hello and smiled?
She walks away in embarrassment because of his vulgar words and he's being a gentleman???
Well if a woman is embarrassed or gets angry because someone asks her for a shag then yes it is her fault.
Must be many men wandering down soi 6 in Pattaya absolutely furious with women.
Some women just need to lighten up.
If you can't talk to a woman and make her laugh...read the signs...ask her if she's like to meet again for a drink/meet up again without resorting to sex talk at a first meeting then you are a moron.
I suspect you spend way too much of your time on Soi 6 or in Nana Plaza. The last refuges of sad and pathetic old men who have no real understanding or care for women at all.
I agree that if I wanted to meet up a second time etc then it would not be wise for sex talk. But that is not what I want, I want to have sex so I will ask. If you think i'm a moron then it really doesn't matter to me because I'm not interested in you at all and don't care what you think.
BTW, I've been to Nana Plaza once, for 1 beer so can't really comment on the place. I've been to soi 6 once, just to walk up it and see what all the fuss is about but it didn't interest me. Though I certainly didn't take offence at being asked to shag every 5 metres then come on a forum to complain about it.
I was going to suggest you would know more about those places than me but your comment about pathetic old men was nothing like what I saw when walking through it. But if you have more experience in those places than me then I won't disagree with you Though I'm confused as to why you would frequent such places if they are the refuge of pathetic old men and you don't like it?
I've read all of your posts on here now Wallaby and you appear to have the mental age of an adolescent. If you can't show some understanding of women then its best not to stand up in a room full of women and air your views. You wouldn't do it in person so don't make a scene here.
You should be thankful you have the veil of the internet to hide behind and read what's been written. Perhaps you may learn something if you bother to listen rather than spouting garbage.
Posted 2012-02-12 07:35:00
sbk, on 2012-02-11 22:31:04, said:
This forum is a plce for women to feel comfortable and IMO you just crossed a line Wallaby. I would reccommend you drop rhis line of behavior now
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I didn't think it was allowed to discuss moderation?
I await similar public posts from you against the women that have made personal attacks on me. Or is it only the women that are allowed a d to feel comfortable.
Posted 2012-02-12 07:40:16
GrahamF, on 2012-02-12 02:36:21, said:
I've been looking in on this thread now and then and all I can say is WOW! I'm no angel by any stretch of the imagination but man oh man, some of you guys are seriously F'ed up! Blaming the OP for some guys acting like jerks, and thinking that their behaviour was acceptable, etc,etc. I can't imagine how you treat people in your everyday lives, your attitudes are mind boggling. There is no reason to not treat someone with courtesy and respect, unless unusual circumstances dictate a change in behaviour. Please cut out the biological imperative crap and the disingenuous "cutting to the chase and not wasting time" BS as well, I can't help but think you know that you're acting like a holes, and if you don't then there is really something seriously wrong with you. I am embarrassed by and for you!
Sorry Ladies, rant over. I will now get back to my regularly scheduled vacation in Costa Rica
Tell me, would you feel baffled, angry, confused and upset if a girl asked you for sex?
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