Why do people insist on posting smart comments. If you have nothing constructive to say surely there are plenty of other places to be an ass. People are looking for help and advise not a hard time.
It is not the wife you have to trust, it his her extended family! Accidents happen. Let's also just say that your wife passes away and in the same month her mother was dying and needed an expensive operation, the family could sell the (your) land and save the mother in law or not? Of course you might want to save her. You probably would accuse me of being heartless ton even raise this but let's be honest, there are many people in this situation every day and most of us do not donate all our farm to help someone live abit longer but someone else's land maybe. Keep control of your assets is prudent in any country. I wonder if any research has been done to compare statistically the number of farang who trusted their wife with their money and regretted it. Would be statistically significant me thinks and none of them dreamt it would happen to them