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Why would you treat a relationship with a Thai girl any different to a woman from another country?
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How To Know If A Thai Gf Use You For Money..?
Started by bob1900, 2006-11-04 21:00
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Senior Member Posted 2006-11-07 17:52:00
These are the rules I follow... For the first 6 months dont give her any large handouts, keep track of how much cash you have given / spent directly on presents... DO NOT give in total per month more than half what she would earn in 1 month... Use a base salary rate of 10'000 baht for students/normal girlys, etc unless u know they earn more than that... So call it 5'000 spread through out the month, continue like this for 6 months and if shes still with you without being a moody cvnt then you maybe have a good un who actually likes u  If she gradually becomes a biatch, starts demanding money for sick buffalos, mothers cancer, says she needs to get another job because she doesnt have enough money and therefore cannot see you anymore as she will be to busy working. Half the 5'000 and see how long she hangs around. @ least you have had a 150 baht a day cheap whore for said amount of time  You talk so sweet, I bet you charm all the ladies. #28
Advanced Member Posted 2006-11-07 18:30:27
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She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? quote] Can't you just ask her for the truth? #29
Platinum Member Posted 2006-11-09 08:01:40
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[quote name='bob1900' date='2006-11-04 21:00:08' post='970398'] She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? quote] Can't you just ask her for the truth? [/quote] That would be the last thing to do (i.e. "ask her") if you are wanting an honest answer. She will tell you exactly what she thinks you want to hear (and it is very unlikely to be the truth) #30
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-09 20:04:39
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob Cut off the money,if she stays you know she loves you! 
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Member Posted 2006-11-10 12:11:12
Why are you worried? Thai women can very well love a man for his money, they can actually bring themselves to love him, even if he is unattractive and unattentive.
Is it so important WHY she loves you? Even if she is "only" after your money - she probably will love you (as long as you are considered richer than the average Thai yuppie in her environment). 
#32
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-10 12:46:07
Why are you worried? Thai women can very well love a man for his money, they can actually bring themselves to love him, even if he is unattractive and unattentive. Is it so important WHY she loves you? Even if she is "only" after your money - she probably will love you (as long as you are considered richer than the average Thai yuppie in her environment). Bingo and thanks for bringing up this very valid and important point. Most of us are here because we could find attractive women who don't care what we look like so long as we have cash, which we do or we would not be here. There is nothing wrong with this at all, in fact this is a great thing for us #33
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-10 15:33:09
Bingo and thanks for bringing up this very valid and important point. Most of us are here because we could find attractive women who don't care what we look like so long as we have cash, which we do or we would not be here. There is nothing wrong with this at all, in fact this is a great thing for us I like this reply. Very honest. 
#34
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-13 01:38:56
You talk so sweet, I bet you charm all the ladies. Your not the first, and im sure you wont be the last person to say that
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Platinum Member Posted 2006-11-13 07:21:25
Its easy, if she wants to marry you after meeting her a week, the chances of her wanting money would be high. I mean would you marry a girl in your home country after knowing them a week?
Paying for her when you o out is fine, but dont go overboard like your trying to impress her, just spend money on a girl like you would in your own country. If you treat her like you would a girl in your own country you will find out pretty easy. But if you do what many farangs do by showering her with cash and falling head over heals in love etc you may not know until its too late because the chances are you will be in denial until your money is gone which then will be too late. Treat them as you do other girls and you will be fine #36
Platinum Member Posted 2006-11-13 07:23:30
Why are you worried? Thai women can very well love a man for his money, they can actually bring themselves to love him, even if he is unattractive and unattentive. Is it so important WHY she loves you? Even if she is "only" after your money - she probably will love you (as long as you are considered richer than the average Thai yuppie in her environment). Yes for me its very important, im sick and tired of girls who just want me for my looks. 
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permanently retired Posted 2006-11-13 08:29:49
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob I have found that if they blink they are usually after your money. Of course that applies to all nationalities and not just Thai ladies. 
#38
L.B. Posted 2006-11-13 09:32:06
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob I have found that if they blink they are usually after your money. Of course that applies to all nationalities and not just Thai ladies. 
#39
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-13 12:32:51
Exactly! Why would guys do things here they wouldn't consider in their home country? Getting married after knowing a woman for two months - incredible! Giving her money because she asked for it - amazing! Questions, I am asking myself for almost 20 years. What is so special about Thai girls/girlfriends, I wonder? #40
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-15 02:00:49
I think the comments that Nam Kao gave on pretending to have no money and see what happens arent altogether fair. To keep it brief.....
Firstly few women in any country would want a man who had no money. Secondly Thailand still has the traditional notions of the man paying for dinner, drinks etc. Such ideas are similar to say the UK 50 years plus ago. And originate in that traditionally the man is the bread winner and thus has the money in the first place. But for that matter would I want a gf with no money, which would mean that I really would have to pay for everything..... probably not. Personally I would not give a woman money, I would not pay for anything other than dinner, drinks, cinema etc. I would not pay a girl to take a taxi to see me or go home for example! So you see things go a little deeper. Bottom line is judge Thai women as you would any woman in the world, but bear in mind some cultural differences. i.e. it is widely accepted the man pays for dinner etc. But if you arent blessed with good looks/charm/ style etc (coz it aint just good looks that get women u know!) and you are going out with a girl who wants money then accept your relationship for what it is. Btw the way that this relationship was described I am 99% sure she wants money. #41
Titanium Member Posted 2006-11-17 02:39:00
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob You shouldn't need to ask that question. Why would a young Thai lady be searching for an old partner internationally? Use your 48 year old logic and answer the question yourself. I would like to add one caution. Thailand newspapers are full of guys (farangs) doing themselves in because their money ran dry and the girl left. These are typcially guys in their 40 and above. It can happen that the girl will learn to love you besides your money, but will she stay if the money runs dry. Edited by tropo, 2006-11-17 03:05:25. #42
Member Posted 2006-11-17 14:56:40
NO Thai good woman said want to married with her boy friend after she known each other for 2 months. Because it's very short time to talk about married. Good woman will take time and carefully consider. Married is very important for a woman, not only Thai girl, but all of woman in the whole world.
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Member Posted 2006-11-24 12:52:36
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob You shouldn't need to ask that question. Why would a young Thai lady be searching for an old partner internationally? Use your 48 year old logic and answer the question yourself. I would like to add one caution. Thailand newspapers are full of guys (farangs) doing themselves in because their money ran dry and the girl left. These are typcially guys in their 40 and above. It can happen that the girl will learn to love you besides your money, but will she stay if the money runs dry. #44
Carouser of fresh frothy ales Posted 2006-11-24 13:39:16
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob You shouldn't need to ask that question. Why would a young Thai lady be searching for an old partner internationally? Use your 48 year old logic and answer the question yourself. I would like to add one caution. Thailand newspapers are full of guys (farangs) doing themselves in because their money ran dry and the girl left. These are typcially guys in their 40 and above. It can happen that the girl will learn to love you besides your money, but will she stay if the money runs dry. That just means that you are both either very wealthy or both very, very poor ..........
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Senior Member Posted 2006-11-26 08:50:07
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob  
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Senior Member Posted 2006-11-26 15:12:02
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob Unless you look like a 48-year old Brad Pitt (or she exceptionally ugly), the age difference should tell you something. #47
The Night Prowler Posted 2006-11-27 03:16:05
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Member Posted 2006-11-29 13:15:47
Hello all, I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ? Thanks, Bob You shouldn't need to ask that question. Why would a young Thai lady be searching for an old partner internationally? Use your 48 year old logic and answer the question yourself. I would like to add one caution. Thailand newspapers are full of guys (farangs) doing themselves in because their money ran dry and the girl left. These are typcially guys in their 40 and above. It can happen that the girl will learn to love you besides your money, but will she stay if the money runs dry. That just means that you are both either very wealthy or both very, very poor .......... Very rich...No (but it would help). Very poor...Certainly Not (especially my friends) . We met at a private university that we were both attending as students and now we both work in bangkok.
#49
Platinum Member Posted 2006-11-29 14:41:02  Isn't it strange that the man Bob hasn't returned to make any more comments/observations or to give an update Trip trap trippity trap 
#50
Senior Member Posted 2006-11-29 14:54:01  In the old days these girls were happy at their work, singing songs as they gathered the harvest. How much rice can you gather before sundown? 
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