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game4shame, on 2006-11-27 03:16:05, said:

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[BAKABAS]

bob1900, on 2006-11-05 01:00:08, said:

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,
Bob

Hi Bob,
When you never have to post a question like this will be the time you will know.

hope you live happily ever after. Good luck Mate.

[buriramboy]

how do you know if your thai gf is with you for money?????

if you are old, fat, ugly and don't have your own teeth and hair and your thai gf is 20-30 years younger than you then she certainly ain't with you cause she loves you, nuff said.
BB

[mackayae]

Don't spend more than you can afford to lose. At the end of the day, if you are happy, who cares whether she loves you or not. Enjoy the moment.

[CymruAmByth]

I always think of me dear old dad's saying:

"Son...if it's got t1ts or wheels, it will always cost you a fortune"

I have adopted the strategy of always trying to rent both of the above, saves money and heartache in the long-run.

[flyer]

1. She should be self supporting = means she has job and can live from that. Then why would she ask/ need money from you? If she is not self supporting, you better forget it all, especially if she can live pretty well with the small money you send her ) that means she has mopre then one teerak sending money like many do... )
2. assuming she is self supporting, then treat her well like you should do with your lover anywhere inthe world. Buy her some presents, take her eat out, buy something she realy wants and can't afford. Keep in mind that living standards in Thailand are a lot lower then in Germany. There is nothing wrong with it as for a thai girl this is juts the normal living standard, but keep in mind that a nice leather bag or a bottle of perfume mya cost half or her salary There is nothing wrong with buying for her as such presents are only peanuts with the buying power you have in Germany.
3. Love can never been explained not why she loves you or you love her. It's just there ... or it is not... I have known beautiful girls dropping a good looking BF coz they fell in love with one that wasz old and not even rich... and that is not in Thailand. So if she says she loves you so much and you think you love her also, just go for it and let time find out if your relationship is stable.
4. Don't take any steps that could be difficult to turn back before you have had a perfect lovers relationship for saty two years... certainly not quick marriage .
5. Assuming you maintain a long term relationship with her, and she is serious about it then it is standard practice in Thai culture that she wil want you to meet her sister(s) brother(s), parents or whatever. The main purpose of this is to see if they find you acceptable and can give her the OK for relationship or marriage. Keep in mind that Thai families are very conservative and that it is not accepted that a girl wil have (extensive) sex with a man who is not her 'official' fiancee.... If she doesn't want you to meet anyone, or does not allow you to stay with her where she lives, then you are probably on the wrong track
6. Keep in mind that in Thai culture a girl would alost let herself starve before asking for money. If it seems easy for her to ask for money with shallow excuses you most probably have a problem.
7. Remember that to have a good and beautiful young girl in your bed you wil need to barfine her 600 B per night.. so if yours is good in bed and pretty and costs less then that you have a bargain (((

Good luck

[flyer]

Oh, I forgot.... if she is self supporting, make sure you know where she works and have a check if she really does what she says...

[phillip2006]

Odds are that she is only in it for the money but, a few are not. Dont judge her on sterotype's judge her on her own actions. Dont forget if
it does not work out 'plently more fish in the sea'

[JacknDanny]

CymruAmByth, on 2006-12-08 13:06:02, said:

I always think of me dear old dad's saying:

"Son...if it's got t1ts or wheels, it will always cost you a fortune"

I have adopted the strategy of always trying to rent both of the above, saves money and heartache in the long-run.

Thats conforming to the adage............"If it Flys, Floats or F####..............rent it"

[SanukJoe]

Jookster, on 2006-11-15 02:00:49, said:

I think the comments that Nam Kao gave on pretending to have no money and see what happens arent altogether fair. To keep it brief.....

I personnally think that Nam Kao gave a great advice, I did the same on women I met on line, and it really filters the gold diggers out.

Firstly few women in any country would want a man who had no money. Secondly Thailand still has the traditional notions of the man paying for dinner, drinks etc. Such ideas are similar to say the UK 50 years plus ago. And originate in that traditionally the man is the bread winner and thus has the money in the first place.

Wrong to my opinion! Thai society is a maternal society, meaning that the women have the money and take care of all payments including dinner, drinks etcetera. When I visited my wife the 3rd time (after 2 long holidays to get to know each other better) I gave her my wallet and she took care of all paying during the total stay. That's the way Thailand works and I can assure you that it's cheap cheap too as she pays much less for a lot of things....

Don't think I'm a softy or dumbo, I'm a normal guy but I respect and adapt thai life style and thai culture. I live in their country so I have to be flexible and enjoy it, and I enjoy it, believe me! When I sit in the Irish pub in Udon Thani, having my pint of draft Guinness and my wife pays for it.... thai people smile then, falangs don't understand and I have the pleasure of it

For the German poster: take your time and be careful with your money. If you want to write in german, just pm me..

Have a nice day
Joe

But for that matter would I want a gf with no money, which would mean that I really would have to pay for everything..... probably not.

Personally I would not give a woman money, I would not pay for anything other than dinner, drinks, cinema etc. I would not pay a girl to take a taxi to see me or go home for example!

So you see things go a little deeper. Bottom line is judge Thai women as you would any woman in the world, but bear in mind some cultural differences. i.e. it is widely accepted the man pays for dinner etc.

But if you arent blessed with good looks/charm/ style etc (coz it aint just good looks that get women u know!) and you are going out with a girl who wants money then accept your relationship for what it is.

Btw the way that this relationship was described I am 99% sure she wants money.

[billaaa777]

It's easy, you can know if she is after you for your money if she is breathing.

[solid]

hoho
this thread is really funny.

[backflip]

She'll send you an email "from a police station" claiming she was involved in the death of a suspected robber and she needs 400,000THB for bail.

[guardian]

OP's original post nearly 2 months now and he/she/it was last online on 24th dec. Seems he/she/it's having a hearty laugh at reading all the responses, but never posted or replied again. TROLL ?

[DragonQuest]

a thai girl i once knew ask me for 5k-10k baht and she said she will repay me asap lol
a thai girl i was dating ask me to buy her a 500 baht hand bag and when i said no she said "goodbye" to me and walked away lol

[junkofdavid2]

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

[britmaveric]

junkofdavid2, on 2006-12-28 00:58:16, said:

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

Handsum???

[RAZZELL]

junkofdavid2, on 2006-12-28 00:58:16, said:

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

Upper class Thai's are racist?

[Donz]

im dating an upper class Thai girl.
But when your me you can date anyone

[DragonQuest]

Why is is that most thai girls stick around when theres only something in it for them, and dont stick around cause its just you?
example/ place to stay/food/clothes/ take them shopping/sex/ I mean when they ask for money its obvious what there after.

Then again if they try to contribute a little bit I think they are worth your time, cause a relashonship works both ways, you give and you take.

I have been with my thai/chinese girlfriend for over 6 years now and its a great relashonship^^

[yoshiki]

tywais, on 2006-11-04 23:07:08, said:

....
to me, love is not what she says but what she does.
....

Thaddeus, on 2006-11-05 00:18:58, said:

this have stuck me.. though my so called girlfriend says she love me and stuff.. but i always see myself more committed than her.. when asked y she seldom spend time.. she say she needs to study..

" How To Know If A Thai Gf Use You For Money..?"

Good question... a very good question.

There are only two possible outcomes.

1. She is, and you won't realise it until it is too late.
2. She isn't and you will live happily every after.


Tell tale signs..... do you take turns to pay for the noodles, or is it heavily weighted on one side?

//edit/spelling

isnt it the norm whereby it's heavily weighted on one side?

Nam Kao, on 2006-11-05 03:14:39, said:

Try this little test and i sugest all you guys out there courting these little money magnets to
do this to check yourself.

Tell her "Oh i had bad luck and lost alot of $$$ (stock market, business collapsed or just make
something up) and play it up big, grab onto her and start fake crying, really pour it on,
go hang off the balcony threatening to jump. Pretend you are going to drink a bottle of bleach.
Hang a noose your living room and put a chair under it and just stare at it the whole time
she is there while mumbling to yourself.

and then immediately CUT WAY DOWN on your spending and cry poor mouth. Dont buy
anything, complain about paying for 20 baht soup moo, etc etc etc , be creative here.
Ask her to pay for stuff. Only have 100 baht in your wallet. Open an account with only
7,000 baht in it and leave the atm receipts out in the open. Visit the ATM and pretend
"no money come out" and walk away sad. Tell her you cant come out tonight because
friday nights are the best nights for begging on Soi Suk.

Keep this up for a few weeks, and i guarantee you - you will see her true stripes. Either
she will be gone searching for the next victim or she will stay with you and you will be able
to trust her more after this. It also sets a good precedent where you wont have to buy her
much in the future because she thinks your broke.

But do this for yourself especially if your considering marriage. This is the land of scams,
be on top of your game.

PM me for more ideas, i'll be glad to help.
-nam

maybe i need more ideas!!

[Tempura]

junkofdavid2, on 2006-12-28 00:58:16, said:

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

Yeah, it's harsh but true in a sense.
These ladies would even avoid dating white guys coz it might make them look bad.
I know it could be a racist statement, but the fact is there.

There might be cases in which a college girl dating a white guy who's an international student in her college, but well, they both are at their 20s, and I don't think they'll go that far to the point of getting married.

Your case? 48 and marriage? well, the fact is there, once again.

[sriracha john]

The OP... a first time post consisting of 5 sentences with no followup posts, despite 71 subsequent reply posts and 5,000-plus views 3 months later.

An extremely successful troll. Well done, OP.

[jtp]

bob1900, on 2006-11-04 21:00:08, said:

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,
Bob

Has anyone considered looking around the same age as themselves?I Have a lovely girl,similar age as myself,with child to support.She is not poor,but not wealthy either.I met online,and she would like to have the same living standards as myself?Can you blaim a person for wanting some financial stability in there life?I think she loves me,but it is hard to know a persons heart and mind,but i am sticking with it,and will see where it takes me!Just consider if a young girl would want you in your own country????Try an older lady,if you want true love;Chase a child and you will be sorry,i can assure you,money is THE ONLY THING that makes an old person attractive to a young lady.Did you find a 48 year old,non attractive women appealing when you were 26???But accept that a young lady will happily treat you with love if you can provide for her,and this is the compromise that you must either accept,or not!But i do wish you the best of luck,everybody deserves to feel some love in their lives!

[helicoptor]

The upper class Thai girl was banging on Donz bedroom door last night...but he wouldnt let her out


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