Posted 2007-01-09 01:21:33
 bob1900, on 2006-11-04 21:00:08, said:
Hello all,
I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?
Thanks,
Bob
if you suspect she is involved in the sex trade ( god forbid ) a good indicater is if she can put a condom on with her/his mouth . probably doesn't apply in this case though im sure she loves you slim chap jing jing
Posted 2007-01-09 02:08:46
bob1900, on 2006-11-04 21:00:08, said: Hello all,
I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?
Thanks,
Bob
hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?
Posted 2007-02-09 21:41:54
malcy, on 2007-01-09 03:08:46, said: bob1900, on 2006-11-04 21:00:08, said: Hello all,
I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?
Thanks,
Bob
hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?
I think you hit the nail right on the head there Malcy, well done.
I look at it this way. I have been with this terrific girl now for two years. We were married about two years ago. She did have quite a few questions about money in the beginning, and I dont blame her. At the time of meeting her I was spending more than my salary each month, boozing and whoreing around Bangkok. When we talked about her moving in with me, I made a deal with her that she could have my salary each month (less 5000 for savings) and she had to manage with the rest. I expected the same standard of living, holidays etc and she was not to ask for more for family etc...she had all the money now. The biggest condition was that we be completely honest with each other.
Two years down the track I am as happy as a pig in shit. She cooks for me every day, and she is a great cook. I do absolutly nothing, bar wiping my arse and brushing my teeth. She even packs my work bag every morning, polishes my shoes, sees there is money in my wallet, and lines my clothes up to get dressed. She would dress me if I let her. We have holidays away and even go into Nana a couple of times a year, book a hotel, and select a couple of party girls for the night! While jealous at rare times, she trusts me as I have worked real hard proving by example that I am as honest as I say. I dont go to bars as a habit and spend most of my time with her (happily).
The way I see it, it is an agreement. Isnt that what a marriage is? Not sure I love her but have the greatest respect for her because she has kept up her end of the bargain. She never asks for more money, except maybe an advance on next months if we have had a heavy one. And she knows I have had a few pay rises since the original agreement which I keep in the bank. She even asks me if it is ok with me if she send her family some dosh (I think twice) and it has never affected my standard of living. Yes your right, it is a normal thing for the Thai women to handle the finances and it is a lot cheaper too.
Another point is that traditionallyThai women see there fathers as gods. And when they marry, their husbands take that place. I know my wife is with me for the long haul as her father wanted the marriage registered in my home country and I refused more than a village wedding as I was concerned about my assets there (been taken twice already). I explained this and she agreed, going against her father's wishes..that tells me a lot knowing Thais like I do!
It seems a lot of Thai men give their women the run around. A girlfriend on every corner. I know for a fact her previous gave her a hel_l of a time. And what about us Farang? How many times have Farang men promised the world and then gone back home on the next plane never to be heard from again.
But yes be very careful. By the way, I am 55 and my wife is 33 years old.
From a very happy camper!
Ps This Donz bit is a joke right? Or doesnt he know it yet?
Posted 2007-02-10 01:54:25
ThaiFelix, on 2007-02-09 21:41:54, said: malcy, on 2007-01-09 03:08:46, said: bob1900, on 2006-11-04 21:00:08, said: Hello all,
I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?
Thanks,
Bob
hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?
I think you hit the nail right on the head there Malcy, well done.
I look at it this way. I have been with this terrific girl now for two years. We were married about two years ago. She did have quite a few questions about money in the beginning, and I dont blame her. At the time of meeting her I was spending more than my salary each month, boozing and whoreing around Bangkok. When we talked about her moving in with me, I made a deal with her that she could have my salary each month (less 5000 for savings) and she had to manage with the rest. I expected the same standard of living, holidays etc and she was not to ask for more for family etc...she had all the money now. The biggest condition was that we be completely honest with each other.
Two years down the track I am as happy as a pig in shit. She cooks for me every day, and she is a great cook. I do absolutly nothing, bar wiping my arse and brushing my teeth. She even packs my work bag every morning, polishes my shoes, sees there is money in my wallet, and lines my clothes up to get dressed. She would dress me if I let her. We have holidays away and even go into Nana a couple of times a year, book a hotel, and select a couple of party girls for the night! While jealous at rare times, she trusts me as I have worked real hard proving by example that I am as honest as I say. I dont go to bars as a habit and spend most of my time with her (happily).
The way I see it, it is an agreement. Isnt that what a marriage is? Not sure I love her but have the greatest respect for her because she has kept up her end of the bargain. She never asks for more money, except maybe an advance on next months if we have had a heavy one. And she knows I have had a few pay rises since the original agreement which I keep in the bank. She even asks me if it is ok with me if she send her family some dosh (I think twice) and it has never affected my standard of living. Yes your right, it is a normal thing for the Thai women to handle the finances and it is a lot cheaper too.
Another point is that traditionallyThai women see there fathers as gods. And when they marry, their husbands take that place. I know my wife is with me for the long haul as her father wanted the marriage registered in my home country and I refused more than a village wedding as I was concerned about my assets there (been taken twice already). I explained this and she agreed, going against her father's wishes..that tells me a lot knowing Thais like I do!
It seems a lot of Thai men give their women the run around. A girlfriend on every corner. I know for a fact her previous gave her a hel_l of a time. And what about us Farang? How many times have Farang men promised the world and then gone back home on the next plane never to be heard from again.
But yes be very careful. By the way, I am 55 and my wife is 33 years old.
From a very happy camper!
Ps This Donz bit is a joke right? Or doesnt he know it yet?
you sound like a very lucky man , my wife cant cook although that dosent stop her trying yuuk  
Posted 2007-02-10 08:26:19
I was having great fun reading all the posts following the obvious troll OP.
But what was the comment about dating someone close to your age? Where did that craziness come from?
I remember meeting an 87 year old man with an 18-year old (she said, but looked younger) Thai wife. He said that's nothing, my brother is 91 and his Thau wife is 17--and it was true! Those men are my gods! Certainly something to shoot for, no pun intended.
Posted 2007-02-10 10:12:27
ThaiFelix, on 2007-02-09 21:41:54, said: malcy, on 2007-01-09 03:08:46, said: bob1900, on 2006-11-04 21:00:08, said: Hello all,
I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?
Thanks,
Bob
hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?
I think you hit the nail right on the head there Malcy, well done.
I look at it this way. I have been with this terrific girl now for two years. We were married about two years ago. She did have quite a few questions about money in the beginning, and I dont blame her. At the time of meeting her I was spending more than my salary each month, boozing and whoreing around Bangkok. When we talked about her moving in with me, I made a deal with her that she could have my salary each month (less 5000 for savings) and she had to manage with the rest. I expected the same standard of living, holidays etc and she was not to ask for more for family etc...she had all the money now. The biggest condition was that we be completely honest with each other.
Two years down the track I am as happy as a pig in shit. She cooks for me every day, and she is a great cook. I do absolutly nothing, bar wiping my arse and brushing my teeth. She even packs my work bag every morning, polishes my shoes, sees there is money in my wallet, and lines my clothes up to get dressed. She would dress me if I let her. We have holidays away and even go into Nana a couple of times a year, book a hotel, and select a couple of party girls for the night! While jealous at rare times, she trusts me as I have worked real hard proving by example that I am as honest as I say. I dont go to bars as a habit and spend most of my time with her (happily).
The way I see it, it is an agreement. Isnt that what a marriage is? Not sure I love her but have the greatest respect for her because she has kept up her end of the bargain. She never asks for more money, except maybe an advance on next months if we have had a heavy one. And she knows I have had a few pay rises since the original agreement which I keep in the bank. She even asks me if it is ok with me if she send her family some dosh (I think twice) and it has never affected my standard of living. Yes your right, it is a normal thing for the Thai women to handle the finances and it is a lot cheaper too.
Another point is that traditionallyThai women see there fathers as gods. And when they marry, their husbands take that place. I know my wife is with me for the long haul as her father wanted the marriage registered in my home country and I refused more than a village wedding as I was concerned about my assets there (been taken twice already). I explained this and she agreed, going against her father's wishes..that tells me a lot knowing Thais like I do!
It seems a lot of Thai men give their women the run around. A girlfriend on every corner. I know for a fact her previous gave her a hel_l of a time. And what about us Farang? How many times have Farang men promised the world and then gone back home on the next plane never to be heard from again.
But yes be very careful. By the way, I am 55 and my wife is 33 years old.
From a very happy camper!
Ps This Donz bit is a joke right? Or doesnt he know it yet?
Chu Chu
Posted 2007-02-12 07:16:50
Read the book Private Dancer by Stephen Leather. It's available everywhere
Posted 2007-02-12 11:44:07
sparkle, on 2006-11-10 12:11:12, said: Why are you worried? Thai women can very well love a man for his money, they can actually bring themselves to love him, even if he is unattractive and unattentive.
Is it so important WHY she loves you? Even if she is "only" after your money - she probably will love you (as long as you are considered richer than the average Thai yuppie in her environment).
So true, my mates missus undoubtedly loves him for the 30,000 baht of gold every few months, the rent free accomodation and the paying of international school fees for HER children! And this is before he is ALLOWED to meet the family up country.... which he can't do until he buys her a brand new top of the range Fortuner...... which he is taking delivery of today! Oh and he can't drive.... I'd say thats a bargain in exchange for a little bit of ironing!
Posted 2007-02-12 13:42:35
this applys to women worldwide...
the only sure way to know is have an accountant audit her net worth, if it is greater than yours, then you are probably safe 
Posted 2007-02-13 03:18:43
What happened to the Troll...oops sorry...OP?
RAZZ
Posted 2007-02-13 04:42:09
Thai felix!
mine puts the toothpaste on the brush then lovingly brushes and flosses my teeth as I sit on the toilet having my daily dump!!!
She refuses to whipe my bum but she does tenderly pat it dry after she has washed it with the spray hose!!
There is nothing she does not do for me-----even brings me and my current' bit on the side' a cup of coffee in bed in the mornings and ands me her aTM card in case I need money for beer whilst she is out then she heads off to work.
Posted 2007-02-13 04:43:45
Posted 2007-02-13 08:02:48
The now 4 month-long troll thread just keeps rolling merrily along....
Posted 2007-02-13 08:06:42
sriracha john, on 2007-02-13 02:02:48, said: The now 4 month-long troll thread just keeps rolling merrily along....  Good old Bob1900-with-1-post was: " Last Seen: 24 Dec 2006 "
Hmmm...maybe he's too busy on Bangla rd in Phuket.. 
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Posted 2007-02-13 10:36:48
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Posted 2008-12-25 16:59:06
Nam Kao, on 2006-11-05 02:14:39, said: Try this little test and i sugest all you guys out there courting these little money magnets to
do this to check yourself.
Tell her "Oh i had bad luck and lost alot of $$ (stock market, business collapsed or just make
something up) and play it up big, grab onto her and start fake crying, really pour it on,
go hang off the balcony threatening to jump. Pretend you are going to drink a bottle of bleach.
Hang a noose your living room and put a chair under it and just stare at it the whole time
she is there while mumbling to yourself.
and then immediately CUT WAY DOWN on your spending and cry poor mouth. Dont buy
anything, complain about paying for 20 baht soup moo, etc etc etc , be creative here.
Ask her to pay for stuff. Only have 100 baht in your wallet. Open an account with only
7,000 baht in it and leave the atm receipts out in the open. Visit the ATM and pretend
"no money come out" and walk away sad. Tell her you cant come out tonight because
friday nights are the best nights for begging on Soi Suk.
Keep this up for a few weeks, and i guarantee you - you will see her true stripes. Either
she will be gone searching for the next victim or she will stay with you and you will be able
to trust her more after this. It also sets a good precedent where you wont have to buy her
much in the future because she thinks your broke.
But do this for yourself especially if your considering marriage. This is the land of scams,
be on top of your game.
PM me for more ideas, i'll be glad to help.
-nam
hahahhaah ..god your excellent adviser..thats true .they always do this..normally man marry women and do what ever he want atlast he cry and beg ..its same happening here ..they sleep with all they want and then last look for a stupid to pay and take care and again rip him and take advantage of thing and freinds what he have...they never quits ..and they teach her child also same..
Posted 2008-12-25 19:36:12
OP hasn't been seen in two years. I doubt any new advice is going to get to him.
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