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In Topic: Sad Dinner-Table Stories From Strangers

2011-09-15 15:38:43

View PostBoo, on 2011-09-14 01:42:12, said:

Thanks Ian, he was the first to admit he should never had married, let alone reproduce. But he did what he was able & my sister & I know he loved us a lot & would have killed anyone who messed with us  :D . When he died it was a relief to us to know he went quickly, exactly where he wanted to be & was spared wasting away as the cancer took over.

Hey Boo!  Good to "hear" from you too!  I just realized this second, but I think I missed you guys(you and SBK).  And true to form, I'm afraid I have to get a bit contrarian on you.  I love the story of your father, and he sounds like quite a character like a lot of my own relatives from his generation.  But,  the one thing our generation has discovered is that lifestyle and diet does make a difference.  In fact, it has been shown many times that certain cancers and inflammatory diseases have been held back and even banished with a certain diet and lifestyle.

Pancreatic cancers have also been linked to gluten intolerance and celiac disease, even if it is undiagnosed.  There is no doubt that banishing gluten from a severely troubled gut has no doubt changed health and lives, sometimes within days.  The sad reality is that in our parent's generation, the alllopathic establishment did not recognize it, and they barely do now.

Yes, actually, you can extend and change the circumstances of your life through diet and lifestyle, and even stamp out diseases such as cancer.  Maybe it is too late for our parents and grandparents (including my own), but it is not too late for us.

The "live large and let live because it doesn't matter anyway" is quite simply not true.   But, yeah, we can all be run over by a bus on any day, unless you are watching where you're going.

In Topic: Sad Dinner-Table Stories From Strangers

2011-09-13 19:00:12

View Postkerryk, on 2011-09-09 09:24:56, said:

View Postandrewbkk, on 2011-09-09 00:15:57, said:

View PostDarrel, on 2011-09-08 21:20:45, said:

The point is I'm hoping to hear some of the sad stories that strangers have told other people over the dinner table.

This isnt a thread about the relative merits of scheming bar girls; that's already been done to death.

I never used to believe these stupid "dinner table" stories that foreigners tell. These stories are all SO glorified. Let's be honest -- most of them are probably lies.

But ..............I knew a Thai girl once.

I recall that she and I lived together for more than ten years. I recall that she cheated on me. I recall that her new "amour" was the highest paid foreigner here in Thailand.

She was late thirties; I was early forties; her new "amour" was early sixties.

I was an Oxford graduate and a former model; her new "amour" was the manager last year of Thailand's top football team (Muang Thong United).

I recall that she and I argued one evening after I discovered what what was happening.

I recall that she got into her car and drove away. She called me five minutes later and this is what she said:

1. Go back to England little boy.
2. I want to fuk old men.
3. He fuks me all night.
4. It's just so wonderful.

Odd. Very odd.

In an instant, you realize that for ten years you've been living with a woman who was completely rotten to the core.

Andrew that is a harsh story.  Although you have hinted at it before I think this is the first time you actually spelled it out.  I have had four wives leave me. The first for my best friend.  The second for a wrestling coach. The third for a Mexican gardener and the last for a millionaire with a ranch in Colorado, five classic sports cars and a castle in Spain.  The last one tried to buy the affection of my two daughters with a Porsche and a Cadillac SUV.

The lady with the Mexican gardener also denigrated my penis size telling me about Juan the giant from Tijuana.  She also said he was a better cook than I which really hurt.  

If you count mistresses being unfaithful I also got bounced for the guitar player from *****.  ***** and his band was hard to compete with.  And there was the ex manager of the Kansas City Chiefs.  He had Alzheimer's and was only with it for brief periods of time (but a big pile of cash).  

In my experience it doesn't get any better.  Only the faces change and the best you can hope for is to die in your sleep.  (Aren't you all glad you didn't eat dinner with me last night.)  

How do I make it through the day?  Because I did everything and everyone I wanted to do yesterday and that's what I am going to do today.  Good luck Andrew.  I hadn't realized what a harsh unfeeling women you had the misfortune to be involved with.

I don't really post on this forum anymore, but I had to sign in just to say hello.   This post had me laughing out loud at the simplicity of truth to it all.  I have no sad stories to tell, only the realization that when some stories end, a new one will begin.   I just try to make sure that I never run out stories to tell, or the possibility to make new ones.   When you run out of stories, you're dead.  

And I'm glad to see that KerryK is still around with some good ones.  Probably doesn't even remember me, but the power of being a good storyteller is that someone will always remember you.  

Cheers KerryK.   Glad to see you're still around these parts.

In Topic: 2000 Dogs Saved In Nakhon Phanom From Dinner Tables

2011-08-13 14:44:54

And, I don't want to come across as holier-than-thou, because I'm not.  I would like to become permanently raw vegan, but I have health issues that prevent it on a longterm basis.   So, yes, I do eat meat.  I try to eat free range eggs and meat, but in Asia that is a little tough.   I would pay more money and eat less meat if that meant more humane treatment of animals as food, though.  I definitely would not relish the DELIBERATE and BRUTAL TORTURE of animals because of some mythical and selfish belief system.  There are necessities in life:  many animals eat other animals (although they say we humans don't need any animal products to stay healthy, that can be debatable for some on a longterm basis), however we don't need to needlessly torture animals to make them "taste good."

In Topic: 2000 Dogs Saved In Nakhon Phanom From Dinner Tables

2011-08-13 14:28:13

Oh yeah - they also brutally kill cats in South Korea for "cat soup."


http://www.my-cause....f_cats_and_dogs

In Topic: 2000 Dogs Saved In Nakhon Phanom From Dinner Tables

2011-08-13 14:19:20

View PostOzMick, on 2011-08-13 08:52:06, said:

Saw this on Thai TV. The caring gentle labourers rolled or threw the cages off the truck - sickening to watch.

I also have owned both dogs and cows, though currently only a dog. When your neighbor takes a liking to your goods and chattels, your cow might give a shit if it felt the urge. On the other hand, your dog will feel possessive and protective of items in its home area, and a well trained dog will discourage your neighbour from entering your property for possession appropriation - especially if he happens to be Thai.

If I am not at home, you could enter and leave my property unharmed. If you tried to remove anything from the property, the dog will aurally warn you that this is not a good idea, and if you persist, prevent you from leaving with the item by less gentle persuasion. This is a combination of training and natural instinct.
It may be possible to train your cow to do this, but you would probably have more success teaching your pig to whistle. Good luck!

In colder climates, a dog can also be a useful bed warmer. In fact, a particularly cold night is sometimes described as a 3 dog night, the origin of the name of the rock group so I believe.

Dogs will also give their lives to save yours, and they even put themselves on the line for other animals.  There are accounts of their loyalty and bravery all over the internet and youtube.  That's why I guess soldiers will take dogs into war with them, but now cows, yeah.  Many other cultures also recognize the unique close relationship between dogs and humans, which has spanned thousands of years.

I do love dogs, but I was also open-minded enough to entertain the possibility that they might be food to other cultures.  That is, until, I learned how they are killed.   It is believed by East Asian, dog-eating cultures that the dog must suffer a brutal death, to release the hormones that make it taste good.   And, of course, those hormones supposedly increase the virility of the men who eat them, as well as cool people off during the "dog days of summer."  When you understand how they are killed (strung up alive, beaten with clubs until their bones are broken, fur burnt off and skinned alive), for the whimsy of "virility" or good tasting flesh, well, I have a hard time recognizing someone's humanity in that case, especially with animals who are inclined to trust you.

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