Dakhar

Folks, I didn't marry a bar girl, I think I married something much worse. Honestly, I think she has an issue called "Borderline Personality Disorder."   I have gone through 10 years with her, and finally her last straw was when she told me I was no longer "her husband" and she was the wife of another man.  So I am guessing by that, they have "known" each other under the biblical since.

Regardless, we have been seperated for about 8 months now.

Well, things are so bad with her mental state, that I have to have my audi recorder "on" every time I am near here.

So the story is, I went to go visit my son at the hospital, she was there, and her father along with his gir friend was also there. Any how, as I was visiting my son, she exploded and attacked me, with really no provication on my part. She was hitting, and scratching like a banshee...  & she literally jumped on my back and began to rake my neck with her finger nails.  It was a total fiasco, fortunatley her father pulled her off of me, and pinned her to the couch.

Like I said, I recorded the whole event. I wish I could get custody of the kids, but I rather doubt I could, even with her explosive personality & the evidence of it. This is the second time she has assaulted me like this....   I don't think any one would care, because really I out weigh her almost 3 fold. But what I fear is, she has learned she can not physically harm me with her fists....   I fear in the future, she will use a weapon of some sort. If I retaliate and harm her out of protection...  I could easily get in to BIG trouble.

So, for now, I have resolved to stay away from her, which aslo means I do not get to see my children. I think ultimatley, if I insisted on seeing my boys I could end up in jail etc.  

I'm am really in a fix for the time being.

Hi folks,

The question is...

I am an American, that will probably get an Australian work visa,

can I bring my Thai wife with me to Australia, & if so, how do I go about doing this?