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#5117488 Meditation Teacher Lodro Rinzler Rebrands Buddhism To Deal With Drinking And Sex

Posted rockyysdt on 2012-03-08 12:21:21

View Posthuli, on 2012-03-08 09:29:55, said:

Probably everyone who reads this forum has a healthy interest in Buddhism, real Buddhism. It is quite a wonderful philosophy and religion that can fascinate a person. It bothers me when people in America, who have never heard about real Buddhism, get suckered into Rinzler's supposed teaching.

Anyone can come up with platitudes about being aware, being mindful, being kind to yourself, etc etc. However, the core Buddhist tenets are not hidden or debatable and, indeed, Buddha did give mankind the 4 Noble Truths, with the key concepts being suffering, dukkha, its cause, selfish desire, and it's relief, the 8-fold path. I think it is reasonable to use these 4 Noble Truths as a measure if Rinzler is teaching Buddhism, or not.

Since the pursuit of drinking and sex is so well established in NY, would it not be appropriate to point out to his audience the mixed bag of effects that come along with such a lifestyle? Drinking, usually to excess, and lusting after novel sexual trysts which can consume one's attention, are clearly not permanently wonderful, and to notice this is the beginning of true Buddhism. Is this what Rinzler teaches? No, it is not.

Buddha also left 5 precepts for lay people that are basic to advancing on the Buddhist path. Intoxicants and sex are two of these precepts. If a person does not follow these precepts, his mind will be disturbed and unlikely to have any true insight. When drinking makes a person heedless, and then do things he wouldn't otherwise, or be less than aware of what is actually going on, it violates the precept. Yet this state is the very purpose of drinking in this NY crowd. As for sex, Buddha did not forbid it to lay people and if a person has a willing of-age partner where no one is harmed, well, maybe that is OK. But being consumed by lust all the time is just the penultimate in selfish desire, and to point this out would be the Buddhism with the Noble Truths. Is this what Rinzler teaches about drinking and sex? No, it is not.

Comparing this individuals teachings with the Noble Truths and the 5 Precepts, there is nothing to justify the belief that he is teaching Buddhism.

We know that he was raised in the Shambala tradition of drinking and sex, and he was probably conditioned to say what he does. We know that he wrote a book, which puts a Buddha image on the cover alongside bottles of alcohol. We know he gives (only) 2 classes a week, yet will go on a 24 city tour to sell his book, and he "makes a living" off of Buddhism. He is doing a lot of self-promoting. Does he seem like an authentic Buddhist teacher?

Lastly, I find offensive the title of his column "What would Sid do?" For 2500 years, the Buddha has been known as "the Buddha", the Enlightened One, and not by his given name. I assume that Rinzler is trying to be "cool", but I think it is disrespectful. And even worse that he presumes to call him "Sid", a nickname he created himself. I have never, ever, heard anyone call the Buddha "Sid."

It is understandable that Buddha's teachings would be gradually forgotten or corrupted over time. In the present case, it is obvious that Kinsler represents exactly that.

In my humble opinion.

Hi Huli.

I enjoy debate and the sharing of information.

Sometimes my posts can come across in a heated, or confronting manner, but that is far from my intention.

If l do come across in a negative way then perhaps we can put it down to conditioning, attachment and poor level of practice.

I respect your position regarding Rinzler but just thought I'd pose a couple of questions.

What specific things does Rinzler teach which you find corrupting?

If it's to do with alcohol consumption and improper sexual conduct, I haven't read anywhere where Rinzla actually promotes it.
It's just that he acknowledges its consumption and asks those who are involved to investigate.

I must say, I have always been against profiting from Dharma.
There are many books on Buddhism widely available for sale across the world.
Is it possible Rinzla channels profits into Buddhist teaching and/or charitable works?
If we were to cast doubt upon him shouldn't this be investigated first?

Many Buddhists are in two minds whether Buddhism should be promoted, or offered only to those who seek.
For me, turning those who would normally be close minded is a worthy thing with huge potential to reduce suffering in the world.


#5178097 Buying A Phone In Chiang Mai

Posted KhunVee on 2012-03-30 21:23:49

My father in law (also 56) bought his first cellphone last week at MAKRO the brand name is Infinity and it works alright.
Has a very clear and big keyboard to it. No complicated menu or features that nobody ever uses,....
Just under a 1000THB and it does all what you expect from a phone,... it rings when someone calls you and you can call other people.

If you never owned a cell before I would recommend to go for something like this.

Unless you are already computer literate of course.
Then you could go for android or iPhone if you want to use e-mail on the run, play with apps, chat on MSN  while you're in a restaurant, take bad quality pictures or post everything you do on Facebook at any given time,..... and if you have tiny little fingers the size of a ballpoint,.... you can buy a Blackberry and actually use it.

Bottomline is, if you're not familiar with all the above and just want a phone. Buy a simple one under a 1000Baht and save yourself a lot of frustrations.

If you do go for the Samsung, Android, iPhone,.... best to buy it at a provider/store direct together with a plan.
In that case you are sure it's a legal and genuine model, you get the factory warranty & the service inclusive.

I'm a happy AIS customer,... if you choose for this provider, they have the main office on Thapae road, one street down from the Night Bazaar on the corner. But do shop around.


#5166836 Family Of Man In Skytrain Scuffle Threatened

Posted TAWP on 2012-03-26 20:01:24

View PostGone, on 2012-03-25 11:20:46, said:

Whoever made the call obviously knew where he taught. Maybe one of the parents of his students?

I for one have no idea why this guy is allowed to continue teaching after he clearly showed a disregard for Thai law. He should be fired end of story. I would not want my son or daughter being taught by a hot headed guy with no respect for law.

Maybe that's why he received the threats.

Fortunately you are not in any position to hold any power over anyone else.

Someone being fired for an altercation on their free time would not only be over the top but also illegal.


#5164433 Family Of Man In Skytrain Scuffle Threatened

Posted evenmoney on 2012-03-25 21:34:26

View PostRoj, on 2012-03-25 21:10:37, said:

View Postevenmoney, on 2012-03-25 21:02:06, said:

This is a very simple case of an undertrained Thai security guard assaulting a foreigner! What discugsts me the most is that it was over some baloons and he was taking his very younge daughter home from a birthday party. I am a thai lawyer and Thai people do not condone this kind of behaviour despite what some despicable people might have posted on this site. I will be taking a very personal interest in this case and will be happy to take the victim case to court without charge. if the victim is reading you can contact me my office is on Petchaburi Rd betwwen atrium and Thantakit. Shame on any of you who condone such voilence!
You managed to spell violence the same way as an Irishman would pronounce it. You`ll do just fine as his counsel.Posted Image
so because of my english skills you say I can't represent an individual in Thailand properly is that right? Its because of people like you that foreigner have problem in Thailand! I think you lonely person!


#5163918 Family Of Man In Skytrain Scuffle Threatened

Posted flyingsporran on 2012-03-25 17:10:06

View Postwintermute, on 2012-03-25 17:05:32, said:

View Postflyingsporran, on 2012-03-25 16:46:27, said:

From many years in Thailand, and also reporting on similar attacks, I am writing from confidence that foriegners can be attacked for very little reason, when the attacker believes he has the power in that situation. Its a fact of life. Normally these situations can be avoided. But there are cases when they cannot. Many Thais are horrified at this attack. At the moment we are just hearing from the noisy foreigners and their equivalent.
John Behan was not drunk during that video - he had been clobbered sevaral times and I am sure his adrenalin was up.
It's rather interesting that i've been living in Thailand for years and have used the public transportation a lot and never encountered Thais getting violent with me. Amazing isn't it? Gee, I wonder why.

Funnily enough neither have I. It means nothing.


#5133804 Smoke, Smog, Dust 2012 Chiang Mai

Posted Priceless on 2012-03-14 15:36:46

View Postpuck2, on 2012-03-14 14:50:23, said:

Priceless, you will never get it.

You believe in the bible = PCD measurements. Some guys, me too, don’t. You try to convince us that we have to believe. You would like to make us believe, that Jesus walked over the water without plunging. To be fair we, the infidel, cannot improve the opposite that this really didn‘t happen.

[...]

I'll try to explain why I believe in the PCD measurements, even though I understand that I will never convince you, a true believer.

The PCD, unlike most comparable authorities in different countries, publish daily measurements for dozens of stations around the country. They have been doing this since the late 90's and keep all the results on-line for anybody to study. This makes it possible for outsiders like me to apply a number of more or less sophisticated statistical methods to evaluate whether these numbers are plausible or not. This I have done over the years, and found nothing to indicate that they are not, even though there are, of course, individual numbers that are most probably wrong. This means e.g. that results correlate in a way that one would expect with neighbouring and more distant stations, with long-term weather patterns and with known changes in the weather.

If we for a moment assume that the PCD is deliberately falsifying all its data, this would require an enormously complicated algorithm that I, quite frankly, believe would be far beyond the capabilities of the PCD. Also, I have lived in Chiang Mai since 2006 and followed the pollution problem on a more or less daily basis since the following year. Almost never have I, for an individual day, found the PCD numbers differ significantly from my subjective experience.

Incidentally I am not, and have never been, religious. Neither do I believe that the Earth is flat, that Elvis lives, that president Kennedy was shot with a cross-bow by the CIA or that Marilyn Monroe will come back to earth on Judgement Day. I do, however, tend to believe in statements from sources that ought to be reliable and where I can myself make a reasonable evaluation of their credibility.

I can see from your profile that you are a newcomer to ThaiVisa. I obviously do not know whether you are also a newcomer to Thailand/Chiang Mai. In any case, I think it would be a good idea for you to abandon your apparent conviction that anything said or published by Thai authorities or Thais in general has to be false. It is at least prejudicial, if not worse, and may eventually cause you trouble if you continue living in this country.

/ Priceless


#5129558 Could Somebody Please Translate The Judge'S Comments?

Posted Mole on 2012-03-13 04:10:37

Nirut - สวัสดีครับ ชื่ออะไรครับ
Hello, what is your name?

Belle - ชื่อ Belle นันทิตา คะ
My name is Belle Nanthita.

Nirut - คุณนันทิตาจะมาโชว์อะไรให้พวกเราดู
What will Khun Nanthita like to show us?

Belle - วันนี้นะคะ Belle จะมาร้องเพลง เป็นเพลงที่ Belle เนีย remix เองคะ
Today I'm here to sing. It's a song I've remixed myself.

Nirut - โชว์เลยครับ
Show us please.

Nirut - คุณหลอกผมมาตั้งแต่แรกพบ... มันเป็นไปไม่ได้
You deceived me ever since we first met! It will never happen.

Benz  - สวยเนอะ... แต่ว่าความสามารถต้องบอกว่าดีมาก ทำเราตกใจทีเดียวเมื่อกี้นี้
Pretty isn't she? But her talents, I have to say are very good. You really surprised us moments ago.

Pinyo - ครับ
Yes
Benz  - พอขึ้นอีกเพลงมา...
When the next song started

Pinyo - เล่นงี้เลย
Benz  - อื้ย ทุกคนแบบ เฮ้ย อย่างงี้เลย นี่ก็เฮ้ยเหมือนกัน ว่าไงคะ
Everybody was like, whoah... I was also like that. What do you think?
Pinyo - คือผมยังเชื่อมั่นใน "เครื่องใน" ของผม
Well, I have confidence in my "inner machine" (it's actually a wordplay because เครื่องใน actually means "intestines" so everybody was wondering why he was confident in his intestines)
Benz  - ว่า…???
what...??
Pinyo - คือ sensor ผมจับไดว่าเค้าไม่ใช่อย่างที่ผมเห็น และเมื่อกี้ผมไม่ค่อยมั่นใจ ผมเค้าเริ่มร้อง เอ๊อ... เครื่องกูเสียแล้วหวะ
Well, my sensor detected that she wasn't exactly what I was seeing. But I wasn't entirely sure. When she started to sing ehhh (I thought to myself) my machine is broken already
พอท่อน พอท่อนผู้ชายมา โอ... เครื่องกูยังดีอยู่
But when, but when the male part came Ohhh.. my machine is still good.
ก็ถือว่าเป็นความสามารถพิเศษที่... OK ทีเดียว
I consider this special talent quite OK.
มาตัดสินกันดีกว่า มะ
Now, let's cast our verdicts, shall we?

Nirut - คุณนันทิตาครับ ที่ผมพูดว่า มันเป็นไปไม่ได้... มันเป็นไปได้ คุณ ผ่านครับ
Khun Nanthita, when I said "It will never happen" It will happen! You're qualified.
Belle - ขอบคุณคะ
Thank you
Benz  - คุณผ่านเหมือนกันคะ
You're also qualified.
Belle - ขอบคุณคะ
Thank you

Pinyo - หลอกต่อไปเรื่อยๆ ลูก ผ่านสามคนเลยลูก

Continue with your deception. You get qualified from all 3 of us.

Belle - ขอบคุณคะ
Thank you

Benz  - หมั่นไส้จริงๆ นิเค้ารู้จักหนูมาตั้งเกือบสิบปี เค้าไม่เคยกอดหนูเลยนะ สองคนนั้นนะ
I'm so jealous! You know, they've known me for nearly 10 years, but they've never hugged me, those two people.

Belle - ล้อเยอะมากคะ อีตุ๊ด กะเทยบ้าง อะไรอย่างงี้เยอะแยะมากมาย แต่คือเราก็ต้องเก็บ มาตลอด และก็คือพ่อเนี่ย ไม่ยอมรับเลย หนักที่สุดก็คือ พ่อตีเลยคะ ตีแบบว่า ตีเพื่อแบบอยากจะให้เรา หายจากการเป็นกะเทยอะ
อยากจะบอกพ่อว่า... Belle รักพ่อมาก และ Belle ก็ทำได้แล้ว

I got teased a lot. Toot(faggot) sometimes katoey something like that plenty of it. But I have to keep it inside all this time. And my father would not accept me at all. The worst was that he hit me. Hit me so that I would get be cured of being katoey.
I would like to tell dad that, I love him very much and that I finally made it.

Note
When Nirut says "It's not possible" he say it as if somebody who would have been in a relationship with her, then finds out that she's not female and then his reaction would be "You've been deceiving me ever since we first met!" It is not possible! (as in it will never work out)


#5129511 Could Somebody Please Translate The Judge'S Comments?

Posted Mole on 2012-03-13 03:22:18

Man to the right is Nirut Sirijanya, a veteran actor
Woman in middle is Benz Pornchita Na Songkhla, a Thai actress
Man to left is Pinyo Rutham, a well known producer

Nirut - สวัสดีครับ ชื่ออะไรครับ
Belle - ชื่อ Belle นันทิตา คะ
Nirut - คุณนันทิตาจะมาโชว์อะไรให้พวกเราดู
Belle - วันนี้นะคะ Belle จะมาร้องเพลง เป็นเพลงที่ Belle เนีย remix เองคะ
Nirut - โชว์เลยครับ

Nirut - คุณหลอกผมมาตั้งแต่แรกพบ... มันเป็นไปไม่ได้
Benz  - สวยเนอะ... แต่ว่าความสามารถต้องบอกว่าดีมาก ทำเราตกใจทีเดียวเมื่อกี้นี้
Pinyo - ครับ
Benz  - พอขึ้นอีกเพลงมา...
Pinyo - เล่นงี้เลย
Benz  - อื้ย ทุกคนแบบ เฮ้ย อย่างงี้เลย นี่ก็เฮ้ยเหมือนกัน ว่าไงคะ
Pinyo - คือผมยังเชื่อมั่นใน "เครื่องใน" ของผม
Benz  - ว่า…???
Pinyo - คือ sensor ผมจับไดว่าเค้าไม่ใช่อย่างที่ผมเห็น และเมื่อกี้ผมไม่ค่อยมั่นใจ ผมเค้าเริ่มร้อง เอ๊อ... เครื่องกูเสียแล้วหวะ
พอท่อน พอท่อนผู้ชายมา โอ... เครื่องกูยังดีอยู่
ก็ถือว่าเป็นความสามารถพิเศษที่... OK ทีเดียว
มาตัดสินกันดีกว่า มะ

Nirut - คุณนันทิตาครับ ที่ผมพูดว่า มันเป็นไปไม่ได้... มันเป็นไปได้ คุณ ผ่านครับ
Belle - ขอบคุณคะ
Benz  - คุณผ่านเหมือนกันคะ
Belle - ขอบคุณคะ
Pinyo - หลอกต่อไปเรื่อยๆ ลูก ผ่านสามคนเลยลูก
Belle - ขอบคุณคะ

Benz  - หมั่นไส้จริงๆ นิเค้ารู้จักหนูมาตั้งเกือบสิบปี เค้าไม่เคยกอดหนูเลยนะ สองคนนั้นนะ

Belle - ล้อเยอะมากคะ อีตุ๊ด กะเทยบ้าง อะไรอย่างงี้เยอะแยะมากมาย แต่คือเราก็ต้องเก็บ มาตลอด และก็คือพ่อเนี่ย ไม่ยอมรับเลย หนักที่สุดก็คือ พ่อตีเลยคะ ตีแบบว่า ตีเพื่อแบบอยากจะให้เรา หายจากการเป็นกะเทยอะ
อยากจะบอกพ่อว่า... Belle รักพ่อมาก และ Belle ก็ทำได้แล้ว


#5124225 Financial And Accountancy/Bookkeeping Words

Posted DavidHouston on 2012-03-11 04:55:44

I just downloaded, for example, the financial statements for Esso Thailand which are available at http://esso-th.liste..._statement.html

Here are the headings of the several sections of the balance sheet:

สินทรัพย์    -   Assets


สินทรัพย์หมุนเวียน   -  Current Assets


สินทรัพย์ไม่หมุนเวียน   - Non-current Assets


หนี้สินและส่วนของผู้ถือหุ้น   -   Liabilities and Shareholders' Equity


หนี้สินหมุนเวียน    -   Current Liabilities


หนี้สินไม่หมุนเวียน    -   Non-current Liabilities


ส่วนของผู้ถือหุ้น   -    Shareholders' Equity


You can look at the individual lines to see how the balance sheet elements are styled in Thai.


#5112902 Putting Jelly On Bread Then Putting It In A Toaster

Posted Berkshire on 2012-03-06 15:11:15

View Postsamran, on 2012-03-06 13:47:19, said:

You may have missed that jam and toast isn't really a Thai dish, nor are toasters commonly used, you are going to have issues with the unititated using them.

It's sort of like farangs trying to get a handle on the Thai language.  Or driving in Thailand.  Or still complaining about the use of the word "farang."  Sort of like that.  Of course, not all farangs have these problems.  And not all Thais have issues with the toast/jelly thing.


#5112637 Putting Jelly On Bread Then Putting It In A Toaster

Posted samran on 2012-03-06 13:47:19

You may have missed that jam and toast isn't really a Thai dish, nor are toasters commonly used, you are going to have issues with the unititated using them.


#5103588 Sick To Be Called "Farang"

Posted Geekfreaklover on 2012-03-02 21:48:57

If you are being reffered to as farang it probably means that you are acting like one. Not a bad thing to behave like a farang, but not something to be encouraged if you are thinking about living here the long haul. Garner respect from the locals and they stop calling you farang and replace it with one of their own terms.


#5103496 Sick To Be Called "Farang"

Posted loong on 2012-03-02 21:04:21

View PostJangot, on 2012-03-02 20:44:50, said:

I think to save the effort for some poor soul who feels it his duty to keep this topic re-posted at a clockwork regular interval, we could just ask the mods to set up an auto repost...sort of like a standing order at the bank.

Although I'm in full control of my faculties. you have to remember that some members have passed their peak nd getting on in years. Everytime this subject is breached they forget about the many times it has already been discussed before.


#5103322 Sick To Be Called "Farang"

Posted pattayadingo on 2012-03-02 19:39:46

The Thai people I know or family of the current woman in my life refer to me by name.
I see Farang as a gerneric term. For example someone might talk to my g/f and say something along the lines of, 'I see you have a Farang boyfriend.' How is that derogatory? To me it means having a foreigner as a boyfriend. If we are out together some women might also refer to me as Farang but they do not know my name, so they use the word they find most suitable. After all they cannot say things like who is your boyfriend / husband or whatever because they may not know what our relationship is.

Farang can be meant badly in terms of speech depending on the context. In the same way I might see some white guy out with an asian woman and ask who is that asian bird you are with. That is not derogatory either.

I think you have serious problems here, OP. You appear more like Victor Meldrew than Meldrew himself. You need to learn to chill out. Go smoke some dope or whatever :)


#5103213 Sick To Be Called "Farang"

Posted Naam on 2012-03-02 18:58:03

Quote

you do u like to be called a farang or falang?

i hate it! it bothers me nearly as much as a bag of rice toppling over in a Northern Manchuria warehouse or the low average temperatures at the South Pole.




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