carlosacao

carlosacao, on 2011-02-13 18:27:25, said:

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torasap, on 2010-11-30 12:39:28, said:

From a more serious point of view; I think small scale issues like this is a matter of lack of education. I have pointed this out in another thread: I'm not too confident there was an initial intention to scam you - the money was sitting there and all of a sudden they'd spent some of it. Maybe there's even a true intention to pay you back (it'll be difficult to do it, though).

I am not too sure the educational bit is the root cause when the same type of behavior operates on a bigger scale; I have spent time with people who are top executives in banks, and they behave in exactly the same way under certain conditions. The only difference appears to be the amounts. For the average Thai farmer it's the kids' future education spent at the local bars, in the case of the bank executive it's a couple of hundred million Baht of the banks money. The key appears to be the opportunity, so the lesson to learn is to NEVER present an opportunity. This becomes extremely important when there's a personal relationship at stake - make sure you never present an opportunity by lending money or buying something in someone else's name.

I for one try to always think the best of every Thai - contrary to many others who thinks the worst - but I also make sure I never present an opportunity; this also assures that I can maintain my relationships, both private and business wise. In a weird way, I get the impression many Thais realise I am actually trying to protect our relationship, and for this I gain in respect.

But I dont envy you the situation, after all, this is family.

You old try the Ecole D'Francais Extreame Orient (I think its called) in Charoen Prathet (between Sacred Heart/Regina schools and the back of Ansawan Market/Guitarman) - its a French school, so teachers probably moonlight for languages. I know ESL (SEETEFL) language school had a French/Italian teacher back about 6 months ago, not sure if she's still there - I think they are sponsors - on Gaew Narawat Road opposite Priness Royal College.

Just had a thought. I know an older Spanish guy here (60's) - lives with his Spanish son a few doors down.He speaks only Spanish (his son speaks English too). He wants to learn English, so you could possibly teach each other and save some bucks. I can probably put you in touch if you are interested - he's a nice guy - lives a few doors down from me.