RueFang

Here he is - 13 weeks old now

Aw thanks GHS and everyone I haven't been on here for months (obviously!!). I have indeed been blessed with the best baby in the world! And not just saying that! At 3 months old, he's still sleeps most of the time, smiles all the time now and hardly cries horah! So so lucky.

Redfish, I can't believe how tiny she is! At 2 months B was 5.4kg and he gets weighed again on Tuesday where I'm betting he's 6.5 by now the little tank!

Your OP says you've already discussed marriage. That would've been the time to also discuss kids I would have thought. At 40 she is still able to have them so it does need to be discussed otherwise you're starting out your whole relationship based on dishonesty.

kerryk, on 2011-06-29 13:57:50, said:

If she wanted kids and after years of 'trying' and wondering why it's not happening, she is not going to be happy, she would blame herself (or you) and be absolutely miserable, and unless you're completely void of emotion, your guilt would also make you miserable.

kerryk, on 2011-06-29 14:02:01, said:

Very naive comment considering your age and considering your dishonesty to her, how do you know she doesn't have anyone else on the side keeping her options open.

Seems like if you just had the conversation with her, it would save a lot of trouble down the line... if she doesn't want kids, sweet, no more thoughts, everyone is happy. If she does want them, good to know early to give you both the option to get out before you both get really hurt.

GHS - with the added bonus of living so close to us! Guarantee he'll get a job in this town, no worries. Hub got offered 3 jobs in the same week (within a few weeks of being here) and he doesn't even have a license or particular skills. Good luck with the big move.. we'll be seeing you soon! x

I think a bit of discretion is in good order by using a scarf or similar to keep prying eyes (such as yours) away, but to expect a woman to go to the bathroom of all places (disgustingly unhygenic place to feed!) is ridiculous. Not that many places apart from big shopping malls provide an actual feeding room for mums and bubs.