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jdinasia, on 2011-03-01 01:16:41, said:
StreetCowboy, on 2011-03-01 01:02:19, said:
Danlo, on 2011-02-28 23:57:57, said:
Well I think the odds are pretty high unless your in some high class joints, the last place I would want to find my future soul mate would be in a bar.
You really need to square up your logic
"unless I was in some high class joint" .."las place...in a bar" - so what you are saying is 'hih class hookers are OK - low class not.' Surely that's true for actresses and nurses and secretaries and accountants as well?
Anyway, we always find whatever we are looking for in the last place we look (for simpletons: that;s why we stop looking)
SC
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Well said.
I've been actively dating here in Bangkok for 3 years now, having what most guys would consider great success - yet I'm still single.
Point is, even if you consistently date women you consider to be "good" - which is highly subjective anyway, but I for one like women who've got their act together, have a car, a condo, travel a lot etc, and there's PLENTY of them here in Bangkok - There's no guarantee you'll be able to form a long-lasting relationship.
Women who are in high demand (by Thais and foreigners alike) have plenty of options,
and it'll all boil down to physical chemistry, communication, practical matters such as the distance between you or having time for each other etc.
Sure, the "prettiest" women I've dated here have all spoken Thai only because most of them never had to make an effort learning English.
My Thai is quite solid, I read and write well - but it's nowhere near the level I want to use with my partner on a daily basis (yes, I'm very picky).
I'd say work on yourself, eat well, exercise regularly, do some self-help and keep going out - it's all a numbers game anyway, just be disciplined and you'll get there.
