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And what part exactly is it that feels so attached?
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In Topic: Thai Girlfriend Problem
2011-03-16 20:57:58
fanfanfan, on 2011-03-16 18:15:45, said:
Great advice in my humble opinion. I think the best way to approach this is for me to lose the seriousness and pick up some fun!
So, how was the long weekend...?
In Topic: Thai Girlfriend Problem
2011-03-08 10:54:35
fanfanfan, on 2011-03-08 10:30:25, said:
She is in los now n will just be comin here for 5 days because she needs to return to farangland again next weekend. Man, I don't know how am I gonna be with her after knowing the 'whole' story. I know I have to brealk it down with her during her time here but I just don't know how. Its not the same situation with girls here. And she's paying for her flight whilst I have booked accomodation..I feel really dumb now to be honest..
Well, you need to decide what suits YOU best.
Some ideas to ponder:
- Why do you "have to break it down during her time here"? Are there any other options?
- If you are sure you want to break up anyway, what about canceling the flight and saving some money on both ends?
- How comfortable would you feel playing the game that the bar girls would play in such a situation: turn off the brain (and the heart) and just have a great time together and the rest - time will tell...
In Topic: Thai Girlfriend Problem
2011-03-08 06:06:22
fanfanfan, on 2011-03-07 22:28:02, said:
Hi Gizmo. Thanks for the advice so far. Your post suggests u too have thought long about this issue. Thing is, I've always found it noble for thai girls as such to want to get money for their family at all costs although I find it extremely wrong at the means they are doing so. She is slated to travel to farangland this weekend to visit me for 5 days. I'm thinking of a way to let her go then
Really, she is going to visit you at home for 5 days? She's just flying over to visit you or she combines it with visiting her bf? (How would you actually feel if you were this bf?) And who has paid for the flight?
And how are you going to spend 5 long days together after all this story?
Excuse my curiosity.
In Topic: Thai Girlfriend Problem
2011-03-08 06:02:04
fanfanfan, on 2011-03-07 23:20:16, said:
Some extra information for you guys to assist me out. Thing is she lives with her so called bf now and will be finding a job as a retail assistant in farangland. That's her main reason for living with him. To get the financial backings without having to work bar.
And again, the seniors on this forum will predict how the story will go: she will come to "farangland" (wherever this is). She will realize that this country is different form Thailand: here friends and family (both very important for most Thai girls) are not around. If there is not a big Thai community, she will feel lonely and bored. She will suddenly realize that an Euro or USD is woth less in its home country compared to its value in Thailand. And she probably will not be able to find a job (if she tries to find one at all) because of her very limited language skills. In other words: reality will hit her hard.
I would estimate the average time before splitting up with the bf and being back to the bar scene is about 3 months.
Yes, once more a lot of stereo-typing, but I see a lot of people with a grin on their face and nodding while reading this post.
fanfanfan, on 2011-03-07 23:20:16, said:
And I've asked her this- "can you help me out if I have my money runs low?" And she says yes she would once she secured the job. This really puzzled me. Ok I know I'm gonna have to leave her as this is getting crazier everyday. But why answer in that manner. Is she playing reverse psychology with me ???
She does not necessarily play reverse psychology. She might be so naive to really believe this. She might indeed help you out one day if she had all that money she is dreaming of.
Try it out. Get broke and see with how much money she will support you.
