phl, on 2012-05-03 13:06:43, said:
For what its worth my few cents worth from personal real life experience
My business associate is a Thai female who i always thought to be a tom, as it turns out she was as she did have a gf.
At one stage after knowing each other for about 1 year, the gf asked me to marry her.
She was pretty open about it all, we had a meeting, myself, tom(business associate and her gf)
They told me straight, that GF needs to marry to have husband, so her family will leave her alone and also looks good in her circles.
We were NOT to live together, ONLY the big wedding for everyone to see and perhaps an occasional get together appearances.
The business associate (tom) also "needed" to get married.
After some thinking i refused, weeks later they split up(as i was told) this week tom is getting married.
Chances are in my opinion, after few months, the gf will reappear.
Family is happy, friends satisfied, face saved, and everything goes back to normal, ie lesbian
My business associate is a Thai female who i always thought to be a tom, as it turns out she was as she did have a gf.
At one stage after knowing each other for about 1 year, the gf asked me to marry her.
She was pretty open about it all, we had a meeting, myself, tom(business associate and her gf)
They told me straight, that GF needs to marry to have husband, so her family will leave her alone and also looks good in her circles.
We were NOT to live together, ONLY the big wedding for everyone to see and perhaps an occasional get together appearances.
The business associate (tom) also "needed" to get married.
After some thinking i refused, weeks later they split up(as i was told) this week tom is getting married.
Chances are in my opinion, after few months, the gf will reappear.
Family is happy, friends satisfied, face saved, and everything goes back to normal, ie lesbian
Amazing Thailand.
My gf, ( I'll be generous and give her that title ), is in an obsessive bbm relationship with a dee in BKK. The dee lives with a tom and my gf swears blind that there is no sexual relationship or history between her and the dee. Which is quite annoying cos the two of them are super hot. Guesthouse would explode.
I dumped my gf for constantly texting and bbm'ing this dee while she was with me. I would be sitting at dinner with her and be getting ignored while she thumped away on her blackberry.
My gf could not believe it when I dumped her, especially the way I did it. While she was engrossed in her blackberry, I went to the bar, paid the bill, told the restaurant manager I would be back soon and left.
It took my gf 45 minutes to realize I was gone. We were in Chiang Rai for a short break, by the time she got back to the hotel I had packed her bag and put her out. She had to drive back to CM and hide out with a pal for 3 days as she had lost face with her family.
If you allow Thai ladies to treat you like an idiot they will, they are world class at treating gullible farangs like idiots. They are the best.
The OPs friend is being treated like an idiot, and with a stunning level of disrespect. It doesn't matter how superhot or supersexy my gf is, she is not getting away with treating me like an idiot either.
Not unless she can involve me in a few threesomes with with her gorgeous dee pal. Then I'm open to negotiation.
Just saying.




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