Thanks for your reply swissie but I'm not sure I fully understand it. I suggested Inner post here. She has cleaned and cooked for me and I have no reluctance to recommend her as a carer.
Last year an elderly friend of mine was in desperate need of carer. I did the job myself because I could not find a reliable, thrustworthy carer to look after him. I cleaned him and his soiled bed. I fed him, took him to doctors and managed his finances. I wish I had found someone like Inner at the time to help me. That friend is now in a full care facility in Jomtien and I'm very happy with the way they are looking after him.
Some elderly people want to stay in their own home but need short or long term assistance to do so. Inner's request was genuine