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7 hours ago, mogandave said:

 


Yeah, I don't care what they drink, and I'd rather they're not drunk.

I understand buying the girls drinks if you're not taking them back to the room, but why bother spending money on drinks if you're going to take them out?

 

And you both fall asleep as soon as you hit the sack. :sad:

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1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

While there are definitely girls that will only have a drink and a chat without going with the customer, they should have a badge or some sort of identification as it's INCREDIBLY ANNOYING to buy a girl drinks and spend time with her to see if one likes her enough to take out, only to find she doesn't and one has to start over. Inevitably, the only other girl in the bar that one was interested in has by that time gone off with some other guy.

 

Trials and tribulations of monging.

 

 The girl (who is looking for a barfine) potentially has a similar dilema, is the guy who she is sat with just going to buy drinks and by sitting with him is she missing out on a R an R customer.

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 The girl (who is looking for a barfine) potentially has a similar dilema, is the guy who she is sat with just going to buy drinks and by sitting with him is she missing out on a R an R customer.


The girls can make pretty good dough on the drinks, and if someone wants to bar-fine them, the fact that you've a drink or two invested may give you first right of refusal, but it does not lock in for the night...

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You're paying for her time, not the drink.
The only reason I'd never want to be a bargirl is guys insisting I have to drink poison ( alcohol is poison, though not usually instantly fatal- it just takes a few years to kill one ).
 
PS, I have to add ignorant guys blowing cigar smoke in my face to the reasons I wouldn't want to be a bargirl.


So the guys pawing all over you would be okay...

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My friend hosts a poker game where the entry fee covers dinner and one beer.

 

Jim, an alcoholic, said, "I don't drink so can I open a beer and pour it out?"  He was serious.

 

It seems some others have the same mindset:

"I'm going to get my damn money's worth even if it is entirely wasted".

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2 hours ago, amexpat said:

My friend hosts a poker game where the entry fee covers dinner and one beer.

 

Jim, an alcoholic, said, "I don't drink so can I open a beer and pour it out?"  He was serious.

 

It seems some others have the same mindset:

"I'm going to get my damn money's worth even if it is entirely wasted".

Not at all, you seem to have closed your mind on this. If you don't care what she is drinking the bar could easily be ripping you off and charging spirit price for an  orange juice and that is wrong.  I agree though that it is up to her what she drinks (so long as not too expensive)

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4 minutes ago, rogeroc said:

Not at all, you seem to have closed your mind on this. If you don't care what she is drinking the bar could easily be ripping you off and charging spirit price for an  orange juice and that is wrong.  I agree though that it is up to her what she drinks (so long as not too expensive)

I have seen very few girls drinking shorts. Usually san Miguel light. 

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53 minutes ago, rogeroc said:

If you don't care what she is drinking the bar could easily be ripping you off and charging spirit price for an  orange juice and that is wrong.

Most bars I've been in have a fixed price for lady drinks.  I would only feel ripped off if she vanishes quickly. 

Again, paying for time/company content of the glass is irrelevant. 

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3 hours ago, amexpat said:

 

 

3 hours ago, amexpat said:

Most bars I've been in have a fixed price for lady drinks.  I would only feel ripped off if she vanishes quickly. 

Again, paying for time/company content of the glass is irrelevant. 

 

I may be a bit out of date (not been in Thailand for 6 months) but in CM the type of drink the girl ordered had a direct relationship with what you paid. But i have been in the P'pinnes recently and what you say is true there, you pay a set price and they get a 'c..p' drink. Couldn't agree more about her vanishing quickly, i always ask the girl first if anyone else has brought her a drink and if she vanshes (without my OK) i won't pay for it. It has happened a few times, the bar or mamasan have understood and i have been told the girl then has to pay!

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15 minutes ago, rogeroc said:

 

 

I may be a bit out of date (not been in Thailand for 6 months) but in CM the type of drink the girl ordered had a direct relationship with what you paid. But i have been in the P'pinnes recently and what you say is true there, you pay a set price and they get a 'c..p' drink. Couldn't agree more about her vanishing quickly, i always ask the girl first if anyone else has brought her a drink and if she vanshes (without my OK) i won't pay for it. It has happened a few times, the bar or mamasan have understood and i have been told the girl then has to pay!

A solution is to get some superglue from 7/11 and stick it onto their seat

They cannot get away then

May cause a few issues later, if you want to take her home and shes got a barstool stuck to her ass , but you just have to deal with problems, as they arise

 

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2 minutes ago, sanemax said:

A solution is to get some superglue from 7/11 and stick it onto their seat

They cannot get away then

May cause a few issues later, if you want to take her home and shes got a barstool stuck to her ass , but you just have to deal with problems, as they arise

 

Good advice thanks, made me smile

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5 hours ago, rogeroc said:

Not at all, you seem to have closed your mind on this. If you don't care what she is drinking the bar could easily be ripping you off and charging spirit price for an  orange juice and that is wrong.  I agree though that it is up to her what she drinks (so long as not too expensive)

Just some of my own personal experience

A Thai lady bar owner in LK, would quite often make an offer to felangs

"You buy me a shot (tequila) , and I will buy you one back"

Usually agreed upon

Got the tequila bottles from the shelf, poured them out

100 Baht a shot, 200  Baht on the felangs bill

Two drinks each

One night, she wasnt there

We got the shots ourselves, fully intending to pay for them

One of the bottles were shots, the other was water

She was pouring shots for the felangs and pouring herself water from a different bottle .

    Easy 200 Baht

 

 

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On 7/29/2017 at 0:48 AM, amexpat said:

I know some guys demand the girls get full shots of real alcohol.  Why?

 

You are paying for her time. The beverage is a token irrelevance.

 

There's probably not enough alcohol in the bar to make you handsome.

 

Many of the girls detest tequila and it is devastating to their health and appearance. Cute young things 

come into the bar scene and after weeks of drinks they don't look cute or young anymore.

 

When I (rarely) buy a drink I tell them I don't care what they order,  juice, water, tea, tequila, whatever.

 

Answer to your first line. They think it will get them drunk and a better lay. It doesn't work like that. The last thing you want is a drunken bar girl on your hands. Most of them dont have a very god tolerance to alcohol and they tend to just want to go to sleep.

I agree with the last line though. Juice, coke,  whatever, it was still only 30 baht on the price of a drink.

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5 hours ago, sanemax said:

Just some of my own personal experience

A Thai lady bar owner in LK, would quite often make an offer to felangs

"You buy me a shot (tequila) , and I will buy you one back"

Usually agreed upon

Got the tequila bottles from the shelf, poured them out

100 Baht a shot, 200  Baht on the felangs bill

Two drinks each

One night, she wasnt there

We got the shots ourselves, fully intending to pay for them

One of the bottles were shots, the other was water

She was pouring shots for the felangs and pouring herself water from a different bottle .

    Easy 200 Baht

 

 

Did you never notice that she was pouring from two different bottles?

 

You bought tequila for 100 baht a shot but feel upset about what someone else was drinking.

 

OMG you've been had!  Big blow to self esteem. 

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